The D Spot

142 responses so far ↓

• gibbs cadiz // Jun 27, 2007 at 2:18 am

  hi dine, better to laugh it off, though what an eloquent riposte from your son. the ”commenter’ IS the embarrassment to our race and country–stupid, short-sighted, unable or unwilling to understand what your blog is all about. and the nerve to threaten you and your family! you’re much bigger than her. give her your best and sexiest dedma.

• Christianne // Jun 27, 2007 at 2:35 am

  I absolutely agree with BA’s post. Your blog promotes the best of Pinoy motherhood, nay womanhood. Some detractors and critics are worth listening to, but in this case, don’t take it to heart

• jayvee f. // Jun 27, 2007 at 2:40 am

  just ignore it

• Manila Mom // Jun 27, 2007 at 2:47 am

  Allow me to add here the comment I left on BA’s blog:

  “Congratulations for standing up for your mom! And your telling the family story of how the name came to be is so heartwarming. My kids say the same to me. All kids raised lovingly will always think their mom is the sexiest and their dad the most handsome in the world, di ba? How much more wholesome can you get?

  “It’s unfortunate that there are still some people who think the word sexy and sex are automatically dirty and bad. How sad for them! Can’t a woman be sexy and loving and caring at the same time?

  “I have very high respect for your mom, and in extension, for her blog. She is a woman who has fulfilled, and continues to fulfill, her womanhood and her personhood by continuing to grow.

  “The world is evolving and we are all changing for the better. Those who cling to the old paradigms are in a panic, as exemplified by that comment. And she calls herself “decent” when she goes against very basic decency in her attack.

  “Don’t worry. Anyone who knows your Mom, or even strangers who just read her blog for the first time, will immediately see how ridiculous this accusation is.”

• MrsPartyGirl // Jun 27, 2007 at 3:33 am

  before i read your son’s blogpost, i actually was thinking of commenting along the same lines that: your blog is a surprise for pervs, because instead of finding malicious content here, they are served with some of the best (and very wholesome) writings by a Filipina anywhere in the blogosphere. so there.

  tsaka what is “sexy” anyway? something that stimulates, right? and your beautiful words definitely stimulate my mind. so to me you are very sexy and you definitely deserve that pseudonym despite what some small-minded person says.

  on some other points in her comment, una, i am in fact a mommy blogger but i definitely do not laugh behind your back because of your pseudonym. secondly, i am a filipina, i am decent (ask my husband), but i want to be sexy, too! why should “decentmother” want to take that away from me just because she has some moral/semantic dilemma?

  (sorry napahaba, uminit kilikili ko sa kanya hehe)

• Manila Mom // Jun 27, 2007 at 4:13 am

  Be careful MsPartyGirl! Some “decent” people may think that its disgraceful for moms to call themselves party girls, and even more scandalous to want to be sexy! ;D

  Hey, I want to be sexy, too! Let’s call ourselves Dine’s Gang of Sexy Mommas!

• Marcvill // Jun 27, 2007 at 4:16 am

  “Sexy Mom” just so happens to be a branding. Your blog is far far from being a disgrace to the world! So just keep up the good work and ignore people like “Decent-slash-insecure Mom”. More power to you and the Racomas!

  Hey, this issue sort of reminded me about the Blog Awards…

• vk // Jun 27, 2007 at 4:52 am

  Using SEXY MOM…this is not dishonouring or disgracing a Filipina….

  Sexy mom is my Model….when I read this word Sexy Mom…I would think that I do what sexy mom do to herself, to her family to everybody, her works and friends.

  She did not say, she is SEX MOM, rather sexy mom….means for me the SEXYMOM who is my MODEL….

  I can’t say or see that she is dealing or talking with SEX here; she is talking and giving advices to anybody, about family, home, educations and works.

  And it is up to me or us to follow it or not, or do what she says.

  What’s wrong on it…….there is no malicious of using Sexy Mom….

  She is proud of using this pseudonym Sexy mom….it is worthful to be SEXY not SEX…..

• Gina // Jun 27, 2007 at 4:54 am

  That is the height of ignorance and narrow-mindedness. I see that whoever this person is, her motto must be ” fire,ready,aim!” instead of the other way around. Doesn’t deserve the attention she is getting now.

• Juned // Jun 27, 2007 at 5:00 am

  In Tagalog there is a saying “Ang bungang hinog at maganda ang siyang binabato”.

  Treat it with the dignity and respect it deserves… ignore it.

• Flori // Jun 27, 2007 at 5:42 am

  Naku, Tita! Under attack kayo (at tayo)!
  Napaka-narrow minded naman nung tao na yun.
  Anyway, Tita, don’t worry marami kang “blogging kids” na nagmamahal at magtatanggol sa iyo.
  Ang ganda naman ng sagot ni BA dun sa nag-comment. So proud of you too BA!

  Hmp, proves filipinowoman wrong. Stand tall and proud, sexymom! YOU bring SEXY back!

• haze // Jun 27, 2007 at 6:06 am

  DISGRACE ??!! That’s a very strong word to use! I don’t think that you will find dishonor on what SEXY MOM share and reveal on her site ! Do not jump into conclusion or judge one’s personality from his/her blog title or AKA !

  Why would someone want to attack you ? Personally, people who try to attack one’s blog means JEALOUSY ! Don’t pay attention to your detractors, it’s just a waste of time ! BLOG ON !

• jhay // Jun 27, 2007 at 6:33 am

  Now this I think is funny but quite interesting.

  First of all, no one has a right to tell us bloggers what to name our blogs or name ourselves as we write and publish our articles.

  Second, whoever that commenter was, probably still lives in the 18th century when any word or phrase that has the words “S-E-X” is taboo and downright evil.

  On second thoughts, maybe that commenter is not Neanderthal in thinking and is living the Web 2.0 life.

  I say this because of his/her complaint that “The same kind of people (pedophiles and perverts) type “sexy mom” and it points to You [the D Spot]” reveals an interesting clue.

  This supposedly “decent filipina” is probably an SEO-expert, wanna-be, or something similar hired to do SEO work for some porn sites that want to rank higher in the search engines for the terms “sex”, “sexy” and “moms” because as BA points out, users who type in those terms in Google end up here, in the D spot where there is 0.00099% of porn or malicious content, instead of those nasty sites foreign pedophiles are really searching for.

  This “decent filipino woman” if my theory is correct, was probably insulted and annoyed that his/her SEO skills are no match for the awesome blogging prowess of SexyMom and take note, SexyMom knows very little about SEO let alone what “SEO” means.

  Economics, money, his or her pride and reputation as an SEO practitioner is now in jeopardy because sexymom out ranks the other sites for that term.

  So what to do then, to “decent filipino woman” whoever and wherever you are, work on your SEO skills instead of this ridiculous stunts you’re doing.

• chesca (exskindiver) // Jun 27, 2007 at 6:51 am

  your son said it best.

• Flor P. Velasco // Jun 27, 2007 at 7:01 am

  I will share to you a “Positive Lessons”…..

  Everyone you meet today has something to teach you. When you feel yourself getting angry, frustrated or impatient with the behavior of others, ask yourself this question. What is this person helping me to learn? Even those who treat you badly can teach you valuable lessons in patience, compassion, forgiveness and other important virtues.
  Letting yourself become annoyed or frustrated with others adds no value whatsoever to your life, or to anyone else for that matter. So take a different approach. Challenge yourself to learn from those difficult people and difficult situations.

  When an aggressive driver cuts you off, when a slow sales clerk keeps you waiting, when a telemarketer interrupts your evening, look for something to learn from the experience. Redirect the energy of the situation so that something positive comes of it. Look for a way to grow.

  Respond to each encounter in a way that will add value to your life and to your world. You’ll find that such an approach can quickly make an enormous positive difference.

• Flor P. Velasco // Jun 27, 2007 at 7:14 am

  more sharing for you…..

  “When they hurled their insults at Him, He did not retaliate; when He suffered, He made no threats. Instead, He entrusted Himself to Him who judges justly.” – 1 Peter 2:23

  Ask God to give you the grace to stay vertical with Him. Avoid the temptation of responding horizontally each time some event comes into your life that you want to “fix.” Entrust yourself to the one who judges justly. It may be a divine appointment for your growth to another level in grace.

• rhodora // Jun 27, 2007 at 7:32 am

  Dine, how hypocritic this person is.

  You know, honestly – I don’t find anything wrong with your using Sexy Mom as handle.

  As to this person’s take on: “(pedophiles and perverts) type “sexy mom” and it points to You” – on the contrary, I see it the other way around. I googled sexy mom as soon as I read your email, and true, your blog is No. 1 on the search engine. For me, this is even a good way of diverting those perverts from thinking that Filipinas are just for sex. Imagine their surprise when, upon following your link, they discover a wholesome, intelligent blog of a modern Filipina mother! O, di mapapahiya sila, at mag-iisip, na — ay, hindi lang pala para sa sex ang mga Filipina.. di ba?

  So, mali ang sinasabi ng commenter mo na you are a disgrace/embarrasment to the country, because the truth is – nakakatulong ka pa nga in changing the image/reputation of the Filipina woman.

  And who says the word sexy connotes only sex? Sexy is the totality of a person. A woman, though fat, can be sexy in her other attributes such as intelligence, warmth, sincerity. charisma.

  Alam mo, sa tingin ko, this person is sobra ang inggit sa iyo, kasi nga, in so short a time, your blog has fast gained a following which cannot be just shrugged about.

  Relax ka lang, hayaan mo siyang mainggit to death… hehehe. Don’t make patol.

• julie // Jun 27, 2007 at 7:48 am

  Dine, I’m dumbfounded and I would just like to say that I agree with BA. You are not a disgrace, you are making a good impression about Filipinas. And who would benefit from that but we Filipinos. Do whatever you are doing because we know you giving your best.

  As Rhoda wrote, mainggit siya to death! Hehehe…

• lady cess // Jun 27, 2007 at 7:55 am

  hay naku, mommy dine, ang hirap talaga ng sumisikat, kinaiinggitan, pinupukol ng mga maanghang na salita habang nagtatago sa likod ng mga anonymous na pangalan. alam mo, mommy, ganitong-ganito rin ang mga natatanggap na comment nina jim paredes, ala paredes, at iba pang mga celebrity bloggers. ganun yata talaga

  im sure this person is happy at nabigyan siya ng shot to fame thru your blog. pero mommy, pagkatapos po nito, wag nyo nang pansinin. tama na ang isang pagkakataong mabigyan ng pansin ang isang katulad niya. dahil hindi po imposibleng mag-komento na naman siyang muli dito.

  ang mahalaga ay ang katotohonang wala kayong ginagawang mali at masama. hindi kayo kahihiyan, at alam yan ng inyong mga mambabasa, at higit sa lahat, ng inyong pamilya. saludo kami sa inyo.

• carlotta // Jun 27, 2007 at 8:01 am

  the others who have commented so far must have said it all. you’re not a disgrace… you are an inspiration to your readers (i have learned a lot from your life stories) so just keep on blogging, sexy mom! i’m rooting for you!

• markku // Jun 27, 2007 at 8:19 am

  We can never please everyone, so just settle with pleasing those that matter to you. =)

  Obviously, that comment was misguided as you never used “sexy mom” in an inappropriate context. I guess the commenter’s one conservative zealot?

• Girlie // Jun 27, 2007 at 8:20 am

  laugh it off nalang, as in bwaaaaahhhhh

  mahihiya yun sa sagot ni BA!

• Aileen Apolo // Jun 27, 2007 at 8:28 am

  The person who wrote that comment probably got what felt like a dose of water when she chanced upon your blog. Why was she searching using that keyword in the first place??? And goodness, doesn’t she have any humor? My Mom, we call her at home “Mommy Ganda” (coz I’m Aileen Ganda LOL) and we always joke around about being sexy, the same way your family did with you. She is sincerely lacking in the Pinoy humor department.

  Just ignore her, it also means you’re getting so popular already. Deadma as in.

• annamanila // Jun 27, 2007 at 9:02 am

  Whatever you do … don’t do it to humor a humorless person.

  If it feels right, then it is right.

  Blog on, sexymom.

• Jane // Jun 27, 2007 at 9:08 am

  I was shaking my head as I read through the post of “decentmother”. How much more self-righteous can a person be to attack SexyMom without reading through your posts and seeing how far from SEX it is. And for her to give herself the title “decentmother”. Really now…

  It’s so wonderful to see your own kids come to the rescue for you. BA said everything so well. I would feel great if my kids thought their mom was sexy!

  Besides, sexy is not always about SEX. An intelligent mind can be sexy (and you are definitely Outstanding in this category). Add to that the warmth you exude to those of us who have already met you in person….talaga namang I agree that you are a sexymom in many, many wonderful ways that make us Filipinas proud.

  Maybe “decentmother” should meet you in person (if she still has the guts to do so after reading the posts of all the women AND MEN (!!!) who have stood up for you in this comments area). I am 100% sure her perspectives of what is decent and not decent in Pinay mothers will change.

• Belle // Jun 27, 2007 at 9:10 am

  sexy is not synanymous to sex at all.

  let me explain: when i wear denim pants and a beautiful blouse (not revealing huh, because i have nothing to reveal in the upper part anyway), people who notice me say, “you look sexy and beautiful!” you think comments like that are a disgrace to filipino women? i do think so. to me, it means attractive, appealing, captivating, adorable, beautiful, cute, etc.

  let me share my story:

  I also was using pseudonym “sexy belle” for a while because that is how I felt about myself. I felt beautiful though not in the eyes of many. I felt sexy though not in the eyes of many. It was for my own self-esteem. It had nothing to do with being a pervert–far from it.

  When I was single and going to college, I felt ugly. I had extremely low self-esteem. No one even took notice of me except my high school sweetheart. I was miserable!

  When I got married, I still had low self esteem. I felt homely. I started investing in myself by exercising regularly around my little toddlers. I didn’t do it for my husband, I did it for myself. I wanted to be able to stand with my chin up. I was tired of being depressed. I wanted to feel good, and healthy. I wanted to be beautiful at least the way I felt. It did the trick. I blossomed.

  Many years later, I started using the pseudonym. sexy belle, just for fun, of course with approval from my family members. They thought it was cool. It is nice that at our age, we can still look good, sexy, and beautiful, instead of looking droopy and saggy just because we are mom already. It is actually an achievement on my part to look this way after so many years. And you Dine shouldn’t feel bad about it at all because you do look good, sexy, and beautiful even at your age. That is an honest assessment that you should be proud of. I wouldn’t change my pseudonym because of one narrow-minded, old fashion woman. Not a chance.

• Gypsy // Jun 27, 2007 at 9:24 am

  Famous bloggers must have a couple of “attackers” straying into their blogosphere…that’s part of the fame! Laugh it off–as do most savvy celebrities! You have a great blog and many agree so what is one stray, ignorant comment? Cheers!

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• Kongkong622 // Jun 27, 2007 at 9:32 am

  Ah..the trappings of celebrity. Hehehe. Naku, just laugh it off. It’s sad that some people still can’t go beyond first names. Or bookcovers, or blog names. This attitude is so archaic, if you ask me. BTW, did this “expert” even bother reading your blog?

• Wil // Jun 27, 2007 at 10:52 am

  I’ve also been “attacked” by anonymous commenters. I’m just amused that these people would even care what I think. And if they really believe what they say, they wouldn’t be hiding under the guise of “anonymous.” You can always delete the comments if they get too personal, too.

• Prudence // Jun 27, 2007 at 11:17 am

  I’ve commented on this in BA’s blog.

  I think you should just ignore it. Or if you want to do some searching, maybe you could check if the email address she provided is valid. Usually those who leave scathing comments aren’t brave enough to leave genuine info that could be traced to their real identities.

• micamyx // Jun 27, 2007 at 11:24 am

  OMG! I think that ‘decent commenter’ should be proud enough because your blogs is #1 when you type in those keywords because this blog is porn-free and it can even give you tips on parenting and other stuff WOMEN should know.

  I don’t really find anything offensive with the nick ‘sexymom’. these people should browse around the blog first before they judge you. ang kitid ng mga utak nila!

• Kyameel // Jun 27, 2007 at 11:38 am

  So many things have been said, and they said it better than I could and I completely agree that BA’s words gave the right answer and attitude.

  After this, we move on and prove them wrong.

  We love you, Sexy Mom! ^__^

• noemi // Jun 27, 2007 at 12:13 pm

  We can always turn a negative comment into something positive. Let’s reshape the Sexy Filipina Image.

  http://aboutmyrecovery.com/2007/06/27/reshaping-the-sexy-filipina-image-filipino-women/

  Seize the power from these sleazy people and empower the Filipina mom by making sure that people know she is also a fabulous woman, a sexy mom!

• MrsPartyGirl // Jun 27, 2007 at 12:56 pm

  pasingit… hey manila mom, i hear ya! actually, when i google my nick, i’m directed to sites of either promiscuous married women with their equally promiscuous gardeners or college girls who have more than just their studies on their mind.:P so sexymom, you are not alone hehe.

• Kyels // Jun 27, 2007 at 1:34 pm

  Tita, I would say just ignore it. I do agree with BA’s reply to her. Very well written. Your blog will prove her wrong when she reads everything because she will never find a trace of malicious content in it. Perhaps, she was just running out of things to say hence attacked you here, in your blog.

  Anyway, I love your blog Tita Dine, and never let these remarks pull you down. You go on!

  (:

  *hugs*

• Rach // Jun 27, 2007 at 1:36 pm

  Dine, whoever said those accusing remarks obviously didn’t spend time to read your posts. Otherwise, she would have realized that you are the opposite of what she is accusing you of. I think you are entitled to use any nickname that is meaningful to you. I cannot believe someone who undoubtedly feels superior and self-righteous has maliciously called you a disgrace. I beg to disagree! While that person is throwing horrible accusations your way, I have been doing the opposite. I find your blog very inspiring. I admire you for having a successful career and a beautiful family. Raising up seven remarkable children is a wonderful achievement by itself. I have included you in my list of special bloggers just recently even before I read this post. Dine, you are special to many bloggers like me and I hope that the words of that person will not dampen your wonderful spirit in any way. God bless.

• Jon Limjap // Jun 27, 2007 at 1:50 pm

  Funny comment – sounds like it comes from a self-righteous Christian fundamentalist who found a verse in the Bible that can be interpreted to “sexy is a word that was made by the Devil”.

  LOL.

• amicus curiae // Jun 27, 2007 at 1:54 pm

  Beauty lies in the eyes of the beholder, malice…in the mind of the thinker. Need anything more be said????

• Ade // Jun 27, 2007 at 2:01 pm

  Whoa. Your commenter is funny because of her ignorance. I wonder what she will say to Basang Panaginip and other sex-oriented pinoy blogs.

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• aly // Jun 27, 2007 at 2:25 pm

  there is more than one entry in the dictionary for the adjective sexy. maybe “decent” mother should check it out.

• aMgiNe // Jun 27, 2007 at 2:47 pm

  whoever wrote that comment just goest to show that she didnt read your blog before passing judgment not only to your blog but to you personally as well. and wow she thinks she has the right to impose on people what pseudonym not to use.

  to you sexymom, it just goes to say that you’re not only getting more popular in the net, but some people are probably too intimidated because of your popularity and your excellent writing skills.

  look ur detractor didnt even have the guts to put her blog/site url, i bet that email address is also bogus.

• amymd // Jun 27, 2007 at 2:59 pm

  hi, dine,
  I don’t think you need to change your pseudonym because that will only mean admitting that she is right. She is accusing you of something that she herself does not understand. She is a narrow minded woman. Nobody in their right mind will agree with her so I think you can just ignore her.

  Just like the saying: “Pag hinog na ang bunga, binabato na.” She feel so envious and she knows she can never do beyond what you have accomplished.

• Edna P de Venecia // Jun 27, 2007 at 3:06 pm

  Hi Dine,
  hayaan mo na sila. pero kung ako ikaw, alisin ko na rin yung word na yon. palitan mo ng BEST/EFFECTIVE mom, eh di kaya lalong. . .???? alam mo na naman ang mga oposisyon – - -regards sa inyong lahat – how’s your mom?

• panggoy // Jun 27, 2007 at 3:48 pm

  hi dine! what’s in a word? it is only in so far as what reader puts into it. i think therefore i am….and there’s nothing decent or polite in what decent mother thinks of sexy mom. let’s not be judging harshly lest we might fall short of what we claim to be…in this case…being decent?

• Mitchteryosa // Jun 27, 2007 at 3:58 pm

  Insecure lang yun Mommy Dine! Mas kaisip-isip nga ang name na “decentmother” hehehe!

  Nakakairita nga yan pero just ignore her, we know what is true naman db?

• Honey G // Jun 27, 2007 at 4:43 pm

  Hey Sexy Mom, just shrug it off…Maybe decentmom is just jealous because you have the confidence to declare yourself sexy and she doesn’t. And I find it cool that you call yourself a sexy mom. All the more that one has to keep fit and beautiful when married diba para sa yo titingin si hubby!

  Papansin lang sya…and in the first place, if she’s a decent mom, why does she surf sex, sexy, or sexy mom in the internet???!!??? parang contradicting….

  And I salute BA for his response! Bow talaga…mana sa ina! hehehe

• Maki // Jun 27, 2007 at 4:55 pm

  Pen names and pseudonyms are just a part of blogging. What is more important is the content. I suggest the sender should ‘read’ first before posting such comments in a very uncivilized manner, because if the sender is serious enough for a suggestion, why spam other racoma blogs?

  That sender was just bored with his/her life so he decided to twiddle his fingers on the keyboard with his evil agendas to troll another blog.

• sesame // Jun 27, 2007 at 5:02 pm

  Gosh. This is ridiculous. Why is your pseudonym a disgrace? We’re not looking at the word per se, but we’re looking at the blogger. There is nothing in your blog that suggests indecency. In fact, if a person search through and comes to your blog, they should realised that this is written by someone who is very intelligent, has a good sense of grace and very very level headed. What sort of disgrace are we talking about???

  This person, so called decent mom, isn’t decent in thoughts. And you give the label “decent” very bad connotations and stereotyping. Now I think decent, I think of someone who is closed minded and overly right wing!

  No, don’t change your pseudonym. For someone like that? Not worth the trouble. I detest pple who come to our blogs thinking they have the right to tell us to write to fit their fancy. Geez…

  (hey, btw, it’s quite difficult to access your blog frequently. I don’t know if it’s the network or server issue.)

• Maia Jose, Manila Mom // Jun 27, 2007 at 5:02 pm

  Sexy Filipinas – sexy Filipina Moms included – please stand up and be counted!

• REX // Jun 27, 2007 at 5:07 pm

  Hi Tita! Sabi ko nga at BA’s blog, I was amused at how a decent person can write something like that. It borders on being pathetic and amusing, haha!

  For all we know, that person is just a sex worker herself and is just insecure of the hits or redirection your blog gets from the search engines. Diba? Maybe your blog and your nick is bad for her business, haha!

  About Sexy Mom VS Sexy Lola.. Hmmm. Well, technically, lola ka na. Either will suffice. It’s the content of your artiks that count naman eh.

  PS. Maybe, the attack is just from another family who wants to challenge your family’s blogging dynasty, haha! Ahh, pati ba naman Pinoy blogosphere, nakarating na ang Pinoy politics, hehe!

• raqgold // Jun 27, 2007 at 5:13 pm

  hi sexy mom — iba na talaga ang sexy, napapansin! heads up, after all, in our hearts of heart – we all wanted to be sexy moms, too. aminin i applaud your son’s response!

• Mitch // Jun 27, 2007 at 5:14 pm

  I agree with Honey G. Kung decent sya how did she know that it points to your blog when “sexy” is googled?

  That means naggu-google sya nun hahaha!

• Barbara C. Gonzalez // Jun 27, 2007 at 6:39 pm

  Hey, Dine, I am so glad you shared.

  I at 62 think ‘sexy” is a good thing. I too think of myself as sexy. All women want to be desirable. I guess the easiest word to use is sexy. What’s wrong with that? Who wants to even converse with a “decent” woman anyway? “Decent” has a boring ring to it. Very uninteresting. I bet no one wants to talk to her that’s why she harangues you.

  Or maybe other “decent” or unsexy women want to talk to her. Let them talk to each other and enjoy themselves. Let’s invent a new division among women. We can have the sexy ones — that’s us. We are interesting. Then they can have the decent ones. Those are the boring ones. I wonder how many men even want to communicate with them.

  Twee

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• Trinity // Jun 27, 2007 at 7:50 pm

  I love your son’s response! And may I point out his logic is as perfect as “decent mom”‘s is flawed. Your blog in fact serves to dispel the myth of the Filipina sex slave because it puts forward the face of the true Filipino mom – loving, nurturing, decent… and yes, sexy as hell! Don’t you dare change your moniker!

• L Salvador // Jun 27, 2007 at 8:12 pm

  What you think of yourself is much more important than what others think of you. You should be PROUD! Time to open a bottle of Champagne. CHEERS…!!! You’re like a superstar now. Controversial…di mapapantayan kaya binabatikos na lang! INGGIT lang sila! If she only knows you personally, the more she will die of jealousy. You can still sleep with a gentle smile on your lips.

• dexie // Jun 27, 2007 at 8:52 pm

  “Decent Mother” is the disgrace. I can’t believe the audacity and stupidity. Yes, you “Decent Mother” is a stupid one. It’s mind boggling how search keywords that points to one of the best Filipina bloggers site can be deemed an embarassment. It’s about time some perverts searching for po.rn online ends up in decent websites like yours SEXY MOM. It’s high time that when one searches for the word “pinay” that your site comes up. As it should be, and hopefully the PMN site and all the REAL decent filipina bloggers out there.

• analyse // Jun 27, 2007 at 9:09 pm

  BA said it all.. you’re not at all a disgrace to filipina women tita dine (can I call you tita?).. in fact, you’re one of my most respected bloggers.. and the decent woman, how could she call herself decent? is she?

• Mark // Jun 27, 2007 at 9:13 pm

  I completely agree with BA’s reply and it could not have been said in a better manner. Cheers to him and to you! He put the entire issue in a very good perspective.

  Pretentious people like “Decent Mother” probably just lurk around wanting to make an issue out of anything they encounter and by the looks of it, he/she (well, this person can probably be a man who just wants to drop bombs on Pinoy blogs) is just lurking around to start blog rage.

  The issue was very well handled and by the voluminous influx of supportive responses, I can say “Decent Mother” has been trumped by what you really stand for: a far cry from what “Decent Mother” indecently claims you to be.

• nao // Jun 27, 2007 at 9:15 pm

  we should create a blog exclusive for “SEXY MOMS” gawin na rin nating title then tell me where to sign in, sali ako

  blog away tita ganda, you should be immune to attackers like this. Dahil pag ang puno daw mabunga, sadyang pinupukol. Sige lang, blog lang.

  my hello to everyone, missing u guys!

• Thelma Bowlen // Jun 27, 2007 at 9:26 pm

  on the contrary, dine, you are what every filipina mom should aspire to be – a great one. BA’s response alone is a fantastic insight into how well you are raising your kids: smart, sensitive, and open-minded individuals.

  how embarrassing that this person obviously didn’t even bother to *read* you before shooting off her *mouth*, or in this case, fingers. pity her for her narrow-mindedness.

  and the nerve to post these vile comments on your kids’ blogs?!

  i trust that what goes around, comes around. she’ll get hers, in some shape or form.

  as for you? keep blogging, sexy mom! we love you!

• AnitoKid // Jun 27, 2007 at 9:37 pm

  Could it be that the blogger wants the domain that our Sexy Mom has – hmmmmm. It is just a thought, kabayans.

  And oh! Nice take on the “issue” – very well said!

  AnitoKid at http://www.anitokid.blogspot.com

• Tiffany // Jun 27, 2007 at 9:46 pm

  Adding something else:

  Well, wouldn’t the people who look for sex and end up in your blog feel ashamed that they are looking for something dirty and found something as pure as motherhood instead?

  I think that commenter got the logic bit wrong.

  You’re still sexy mom for us

• Greymom // Jun 27, 2007 at 9:54 pm

  There will always be ignorant people in this world. How sad that a so called “fellow Filipina” did this.
  Please don’t change your name just because of some ignorant people. More power to you!

• pinayhekmi // Jun 27, 2007 at 11:16 pm

  Whoever posted that comment:

  1. Probably hasn’t been called sexy in a while.
  2. Probably thinks very low of her attractiveness.
  3. Probably needs to get laid.

• chateau // Jun 27, 2007 at 11:40 pm

  I wonder if decent filipino woman is reading all the comments that rally behind our dear Sexy Mom??? And how self-righteous naman ng pseudonym nya…
  AND, sexy ka naman talaga, Sexy Mom ha! hehe May K ka to use the name.
  Your son said it so well. You’re so blessed to have such a son and a whole blogging community behind you.

• andianka // Jun 28, 2007 at 12:05 am

  like what i left with your son’s blog, if my mom knew how to blog, she could’ve taken the pseudo “hot momma” coz that’s what we call her as well whenever she’s a bit conscious of herself.

  it’s a sort of lambing kumbaga. i agree that the way you look at things depends on how you’re brought up most of the time.

  i say keep the name, stay sexy, and keep inspiring other bloggers, uplift the womanhood’s awareness. you’re doing a great job!

  and stay happy!

  (shrug that decent filipina wannabe’s comment… she’s the disgrace.)

• pining // Jun 28, 2007 at 12:57 am

  if that’s her perception then it’s her problem, maybe she has nothing better to do…
  Oh, some people can be so narrow-minded… so sad
  anyway, you’re a great blogger/great mom, so keep the fire burning!

• Jaren Charles Cudilla // Jun 28, 2007 at 4:14 am

  If that situation, happened to my Mom. well , I’m thinking of 3 things “stalking”, “kidnapping”, “torture”….hrmmm hehehe!!

  “decent filipina woman”, really? did she read the blogs? is she serious? she should just bury her head in the sand… like a cute ostrich would do…hrrmmm…stupidity, ignorance or just plain jealousy probably doesn’t have a mom… to call pretty or sexy, has low self-esteem.

  Sexy Mom – you’re the “decent” and “sexy filipina mom” ~O)

• geri // Jun 28, 2007 at 4:40 am

  Your son said it best.

• Mr Ala Eh // Jun 28, 2007 at 9:22 am

  BA is soooo right. Instead of seeing what perverts want to see, is a wholesome blog, very informative.

• Carlota // Jun 28, 2007 at 9:37 am

  peoples comments said ‘em all. You are the best, rock on!

• Riz // Jun 28, 2007 at 9:48 am

  Just ignore it Miss Dina. I’m a regular lurker of your blog and I think you uphold Filipina beauty, character and values even.

• KK // Jun 28, 2007 at 10:21 am

  This character should have read some of your posts before commenting. By reading, he/she would have been aware of what you are all about. An intelligent, well learned, sexy mom who happens to be a Filipina!

• jireh // Jun 28, 2007 at 11:56 am

  Hi tita Dine! Im pretty busy this past few weeks but everytime I go online I take a little time to visit your site… Isa lang po ang masasabi ko kay DECENT MOTHER: DON’T JUDGE A BOOK BY IT’S COVER! d man lang sya nagbabasa… ano ba? hahaha… para syang si Wendy ng PBB… nakakatawa as in Tita Dine! Nakakatawa sya! hehehe tawa na lng tayo tita! Sexy ka naman talaga… Inggit lang yon sa iyo!

• tofubaby // Jun 28, 2007 at 1:28 pm

  I’ve been only away for a while and I almost missed this!

  I couldn’t believe somebody would do that.I don’t think I could add anymore. The rest of the gang have said it very well.

  You’re not a disgrace, tita Dine. In fact, as others do, you are not one of my role model as a wife and a mom (soon but not yet).

  Hmmm… maybe I should change my name to Sexy Wife…

• maripe Juliano // Jun 28, 2007 at 2:21 pm

  To my best friend Dine…
  sayang she did not get to meet you personally sexy talaga!!!
  Dine is a close friend of mine…. she is a mother of 7 but still very sexy talaga, hindi lang bola from her children…
  its just that others have IT and others don’t have it .. i am white haired and obese (according to my doctor) but still it would be nice to called sexy by my loved ones ….

  God bless to all!!!

• feng // Jun 28, 2007 at 2:31 pm

  hello SexyMom. sorry for visiting only now. alam mo na, my usual excuse, busy with mommying chores.

  everybody have said it all. and i do hope that person who attempted to put you down learned his/her lesson already.

  if i may add, i remembered in Pinoy Moms Network, (remember the time when the group blog is just starting and we new members are to post our member profile), most of us Mommies even agreed when Connie said “sexy” is a relative word. here’s to quote her comment:

  “sexy is relative”

  hehehe sexy is a perception lang naman kasi. and a state of mind. sexy tayo lahat and i’ll bash anyone who says otherwise.

  i’m copy pasting the link: http://pinoymomsnetwork.com/2007/02/07/dine-racoma/#comments

• myepinoy // Jun 28, 2007 at 3:36 pm

  Comments, good or bad, praise or evil-spirited are part and parcel of blogging. The moment you open this box, it is like an open house. blogosphere is a real world where nice and bad, good and evil people exist.

  Being on top of the search engines sometimes has disadvantages but you would agree with me that this is what most SEO want and this is good for business.

  I am sure your son J angelo knows what to do with this type of thing and pretty sure as well that you know where your comments are coming from because everyone who visits and leaves comment here has a trace.

  Besides, you are not what she said you are.

  What you do with that kind of comment? my unsolicited advice: let it be and let it come out so people will know. after all, your blog entries speak for itself. If she is intelligent enough (or decent filipina as she claimed she was – dati siguro after this comment), she should have read everything here.

  to decent filipino:
  “We have been trying to change the image of the Filipino women in the internet.” Really, what have you done so far? Tell us that thing you said you have been doing. You can’t even identify yourself properly. So how can you change the image of the Filipino women.

  Palagay ko inggit ka lang o kaya kulang ka sa pansin o baka naman spammer ka o meron ka website na nagpoporomote ng hindi maganda at na-didislodge ka na sa search engine results.

  Dapat magtanim na lang sya ng kamote kung di nya ma differentiate ang blog na nagpo-promote ng bad or good image ng Pinay.

• dad // Jun 28, 2007 at 3:48 pm

  A bible quote that I picked up today from the greenbelt chapel says “Older women should be reverent in their behavior, NOT SLANDERER, not addicted to drink, teaching what is good, so that they may train younger women” (Titus 2:1-8).

  That’s my wife sexy mom, NOT SLANDERER but teaching younger women to be GOOD MOMS through her blogs.

• Pinky Eye // Jun 28, 2007 at 5:27 pm

  Sexy Mom… a song for you…Wag mong pansinin ang naninira saiyo…basta alam mo lang TAMA ang ginagawa mo…nosi nosi balasi sino sino ba sila…oh di ba.

  Decent Mother (Kuno) If possible wag kang makiride sa kasikatan ng iba…mine your own business…Naaawa ako saiyo sobra sobra ang INGGIT mo sa katawan…paki scrub nga please…

• angel // Jun 28, 2007 at 5:48 pm

  Grrrr… All I can say is that DecentWoman is not at all decent. For one, her attack is just plain harassment. Second, she’s the one with a dirty mind. Why will she go on the Internet and search for “sexy mom” if she was already expecting the results to be offensive? Haha. Words are static but meanings are dynamic so she should not be close-minded about the word sexy. It can mean a lot of things. For me, Tita Dine is Sexy because of her beautiful brain and heart.

  Di ba dapat matuwa nga si DecentMom that somebody’s breaking out of the stereotype that she was saying? Because when people type in sexy mom and find Tita Dine’s blog, they will find good content that touches on life’s greatest treasures: family, parenting, motherhood, etc.

  Sorry na-high blood talaga ako. Tita, just ignore this pesron-woman-whatever. She’s just one compared to the lots and lots of people who love you to bits.

• tutubi // Jun 28, 2007 at 6:03 pm

  oh, you’re being flamed for using such a sexy name. They don’t really understand the meaning of the word sexy

• dyosa // Jun 28, 2007 at 6:31 pm

  Tsk tsk. Tita, nainggit lang talaga yan kasi naunahan mo siya using the “Sexy Mom” pseudonym, haha!
  Sexy can mean a lot of things, and not all of them are bad. That would depend on the person who’s using it, and you, Sexy Mom, has given it more meaning with much dignity and praise, thanks to your blog.
  And as for “Decent Mother,” thinking like the way she does just goes to show how dirty her mind can get. Tsk tsk. Not “decent” at all.

• chase // Jun 28, 2007 at 11:19 pm

  Those people are just jealous of your grace and beauty! That’s why they leave anonymous message since they are a bunch of cowards. Talking about decency, they are not even decent enough to leave their identity.

  Anyway you always have my support sexy mom!

• Chi // Jun 28, 2007 at 11:58 pm

  you will always be SEXY MOM despite receiving that comment. being sexy has nothing to do with the term “sex”. probably she’s just ranting about how blessed you are to seven kids and still be as graceful as ever.

• Beng // Jun 29, 2007 at 12:18 am

  
  Now I have an idea, I am thinking of changing my name, from Sexy Mom to Sexy Lola.

  bwahahaha, this line made me really laugh. sige subukan mo bella and let us see what “decentmother” would say to this pseudonym. jesus christ what a puritanical behavior.

  she said: We have been trying to change the image of the Filipino women in the internet.

  if that is her or their aim then they should go to bloggers na walang ibang pinagsusulat kundi yong kanilang mga kalandian (i mean bed stories and etc.) dahil yan ang diyahe. but then on the other hand, it’s their freedom to write, di ba?

  mader, my last word is…taasan mo siya ng iyong mga kilay sabay ngiti. yong ngiting aso baga.

• dimaks // Jun 29, 2007 at 3:03 am

  I would very much consider anchoring the term “sexy mom” to a decent, well venerated and well read Filipino, family and parenting oriented blog. Isn’t it a perfect way of eliminating the wrong perceptions on Filipino women as sex objects especially on the internet?

  I challenge that decent woman to make her own blog and write down her lines to her heart out.

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• tina // Jun 29, 2007 at 9:47 am

  ngayon ko lang ito nabasa.. *busy*

  anyway… she’s jumping into conclusions.. just because your nick online is like that doesn’t mean it contains anything explicit or whatever. I don’t think i saw any sex posts here.. wala.. wala talaga. SHE DID NOT EVEN READ your blog. tsk.

  that’s one of those people who judges other people right away.. through their nicks… and not getting all the things straight.

• jho // Jun 29, 2007 at 11:10 am

  Paki ba nila if you use that pseudonym. We are all entitled to the freedom of using whatever blogname that we wanted. And besides, very malicious naman yung pag-iisip nila. Not because you use that blogname doesn’t mean you’re a disgrace to the Filipina women.

• Toe // Jun 29, 2007 at 12:22 pm

  Ahahaha… BA’s rebuttal is excellent. It is good nga for perverts to visit your site so that they could learn a thing or two. Maybe the commenter comes straight out of the middle ages.

• fruityoaty // Jun 29, 2007 at 1:31 pm

  What a silly comment from a silly person. What’s wrong with being a sexy mom? Strange lady. So if you become a mother… you suddenly have to hide your sexual nature? What?

• issai // Jun 29, 2007 at 3:20 pm

  the age of the internet has opened a door to abuses like threats and inappropriate comments. she’s bound to her opinion but the readers are the judge. and proof that your readers are not swayed by the comment/attack is that they rally behind your back. you should be proud. i think my mom is sexy, she’s 51 but i’m proud to say that my mom is sexy. it doesn’t demean who she is. it is wrong for the commenter to attack the person rather than the content of the blog. let’s just say, a large part of society isn’t that educated. it’s time to educate and re-educate.

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• » I AM A SEXY FILIPINA MOM // Jun 29, 2007 at 8:09 pm

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• Em Dy // Jun 29, 2007 at 9:43 pm

  Hay naku, Sexy Mom, best to ignore it na lang. We all know SEXY does not mean INDECENT.

• kimmy // Jun 30, 2007 at 5:09 am

  she’s just jealous because you have many readers and supporters. little did she know that this issue may increase your hits even more and maybe give you new readers and fans

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• jimmy soriano // Jul 1, 2007 at 4:25 am

  I think the comment and suggestion is undeserved. While it may be true that the use of tbe word ‘sexy’ might attract indecent attention particularly in cyberspace, I personally think that on the contrary the digital world out there would realize that Filipinas are decent women and mothers when they click and visit Dine’s blog. In a sense, Dine helps build the image of the Filipina. So the next time netizens use ‘sexy’ for a search string, the would find a decent website or weblog of Filipina, and not the usual results of perverted entries. Dine, I believe, should be commended for boldy entering the enemy’s territory using their own ammunition, so to speak. Keep it up Dine. What’s in a name anyway? It’s not the form but the substance that counts, I think.

• Flori // Jul 1, 2007 at 8:45 pm

  Ang ironic, in a way, “infamous-commenter” achieved her goal as her comment spawned a multitude of posts that actually supports the campaign for Filipina empowerment.

  Anti-infamous-commenter nga lang Hehe.

• I am a sexy Pinay, hear me roar! « Short Term Effect // Jul 1, 2007 at 8:51 pm

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• Lazarus // Jul 2, 2007 at 7:55 pm

  I don’t find anything wrong with the SexyMom pseudonym. I guess this is one of the downside of being popular. Marami na mang-asar.

  Great post from your son BA. Keep on blogging sexy lola!

• Dexter // Jul 2, 2007 at 8:39 pm

  I don’t see anything wrong using Sexy mom .. Maybe the one commented is not sexy …LOL

• greenpinoy // Jul 3, 2007 at 8:25 pm

  wow…doesnt she (decentfilipina@gmail.com, not very decent at all, threatening you and your family like that…) realize that you in fact give a positive image to all Filipino women? That by you showing up in the perverts’ “sexy mom” search brings about a new meaning to their query? I can just imagine “Oh man, not all sexy moms are desperate housewives after all! Let’s read her blog!”. I’d have a problem if you call yourself “sl*ttymom”. But you don’t, and you’re not! You’re sexymom. And there’s a biiiiiig difference! That’s what the crazy woman doesnt understand

  Rock on VERY SEXY MOM!

• Lulu // Jul 4, 2007 at 4:50 pm

  if i had a blog myself, i would call me “sexy mom 2 (too)” wish ko lang sexy talaga ako, kaya lang at 5 feet, 120plus pounds, wrinkles and all, i cant be sexy except in the eyes of my family-kids 25 and 20 years and husband. nambobola mga kids ko parati daw ako sexy for them even if i have never, never ever will siguro.

• sftopics // Jul 5, 2007 at 11:34 am

  Pinoys and pinays who write against kapwa pinoys are nothing but full of envy and insecurity cuz their blogs are not as “hot” as yours.

  That’s also one tactic of diverting attention para sumikat ang blogsite nya. This is some kind of harassment online and I hope people should stop doing this. Just play it fair, mind your own blogging.

  To the Inamous “Descent Mom” ..How did she know she is decent, maybe she judged herself , well obviously…..If you want to raise your popularity work hard without maligning other blogger’s reputation.

  Shame on you, you should have read the code of “conduct for bloggers”…

  To sexy mom, stand up and keep your chin up high, be true to yourself and don’t be intimidated by these scambags…

  ~sftopics is here to stay~

• Joel // Jul 5, 2007 at 1:02 pm

  B.A., you rock! Hi, Miss Dine. You have a mighty fine son there.

  Haaaay, the self-righteous moralist … this “Decent Mother” probably has kids who don’t listen to her … and a husband that likewise ignores her.

  Miss Dine, you don’t deserve that “attack.” You’re cool, hip and, yes, sexy … but you will never be a disgrace. Look at it this way, if your husband, kids, relatives, and friends respect you, you don’t need someone who’s obviously lacking respect lecture you on what you should do or how you should call yourself.

• Toni // Jul 5, 2007 at 4:29 pm

  Your son’s reply was BRILLIANT. Perfectly captured, perfectly expressed. His methodology on going about the search was spot on.

  It’s just so sad that there are such narrow-minded people out there. Sheesh. Insecure siguro!

• May // Jul 5, 2007 at 5:00 pm

  A wonderful son you have!

  I am appalled at how someone so ‘decent’ would attack and threaten your family like that! Keep blogging, I love reading your posts! You have so much lessons to impart to young moms and wifeys like me and almost everything you blog about is so upbeat, it’s infectious!

• Aura // Jul 5, 2007 at 7:24 pm

  Hi Dine,
  Im a new blogger who is just looking around for the moment when i noticed your bloggers name & click it for curiosity.I like what i read about yourself, what you have been writting until i came upon this part about “decent mothers”comment..Its not nice what she wrote,but if she had time to read your blogs she´ll get to know you better, for sure she is already regretting what she had done..people make mistakes especially the impulsive ones..
  So, whats wrong with using “sexy mom” as your pseudonym? By d way “sexy lola ” is not a bad name as well..infact i like the touch of humour in it..
  Best wishes & regards

• Happy // Jul 6, 2007 at 2:45 am

  Oh Sexy Mom, I love it the way it is, jus ignore her. hmm… Sexy Lola sounds great too, but I guess my mom already used that to call herself. ha ha ha! Stay Sexy!

• auee // Jul 8, 2007 at 5:35 am

  Hey Sexy Mom, sorry I haven’t visited this “perverted” site lately ha? I nearly missed this funny “decent mother” post.

  Kiber na lang. Just shows the person didn’t know what she was talking about. If she/he read your entries anyway, the person would have realised this is not a porn site. But then kung mababaw nga ang pinagkukunan, you cannot expect the person to go past the cover…

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• frogfunk // Jul 10, 2007 at 2:33 pm

  The source of that comment must have been raised only on Quaker Oates. Hmmm… Kawawa naman.

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• stillwaters // Jul 11, 2007 at 2:39 pm

  I guess it shows how some people easily judge others. It isn’t fair to judge your blog by the username you go by. You have a very interesting blog. Just keep blogging.

• pinay von alemania // Jul 14, 2007 at 8:33 pm

  well, this is the risk when you post and i am sure there is a calculated element here to start the talk…with our blogging world, one is never sure if this are all intended to get those desired hits…
  get all the scandals and you will have the hits…
  it is just a talk!!!
  it is just a word!

  pinay von alemania

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• Bang // Aug 4, 2007 at 3:03 pm

  hi sexy mom! I don’t get it. Why is she so offended with the “sexy mom” title. Maybe she wants that title for her…hehe…kaso taken na ang title.

  DEDMA mo na lang. The title is all yours! Pero sexy din ako **wink** hehe

  Keep blogging! God bless!

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• Edward // Aug 24, 2007 at 9:36 pm

  Comment from an American male:

  Using the term “Sexy Mom” is a good thing and I will tell you why. The internet is a “context based, indexed filing system” and therefore, when web pages change the meaning of general context from negative to positive it becomes a trend that like a blotter, at once gets spot, then starts to become saturated.

  Picture it as a cup of vinegar in a large vat. We add an equal part of apple cider and it still is bitter… not sweet at all by eventually, adding enough cider begins to sweeten the brew until finally, many gallons/liters later, the vinegar can not be tasted at all and we have a context that is pure MASARAP!

  Keep up the great image changing work and the fine perception of what I call the “True Filipina”

  Now it is up to you to change your perception.

  Cordially!

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• robert concepcion // Aug 25, 2007 at 12:15 pm

  Hahaha!!

  I never knew that the “Sexy Mom” tag became an issue!

  I remember filling up an application form for a credit card … and after the space for “name” came the question for “sex” …

  Shall I ask “decent mom” for legal help? Obviously the card company is offering me “sex”!!!!

  … and to think, I almost wrote “sure!” on the application form.

  hehehe

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  [...] Decent Mother: You [Sexy Mom] are a disgrace to the Filipino women. We have been trying to change the image of the Filipino women in the internet. Foreigners type “filipina” to search for women to have sex. The same kind of people (pedophiles and perverts) type “sexy mom” and it points to You . You are an embarassment to our country. Stop using SEXY MOM. Filipino mothers are loving caring mothers. Leave the SEX part in your bedroom . Mommy bloggers laugh behind your back because of your pseudonym. Filipino women are too polite to tell you to say that using sexy mom is killing the filipino women. (Posted in Sexy Mom’s blog) [...]

•   Quotes from the Filipino Blogosphere 2007 by The Philippines According to Blogs // Dec 25, 2007 at 12:29 pm

  [...] Decent Mother: You [Sexy Mom] are a disgrace to the Filipino women. We have been trying to change the image of the Filipino women in the internet. Foreigners type “filipina” to search for women to have sex. The same kind of people (pedophiles and perverts) type “sexy mom” and it points to You . You are an embarassment to our country. Stop using SEXY MOM. Filipino mothers are loving caring mothers. Leave the SEX part in your bedroom . Mommy bloggers laugh behind your back because of your pseudonym. Filipino women are too polite to tell you to say that using sexy mom is killing the filipino women. (Posted in Sexy Mom’s blog) [...]

• Under attack again–branded as a “Disgrace to Filipina Mothers” : The D Spot // Jun 29, 2008 at 12:32 pm

  [...] I have kept that comment waiting for moderation, but son BA has seen it before I could either approve it, delete it or spam it. BA cleans my blog of spams and sometimes do some tweakings for me. Alan Jr also saw it while we were reading my emails. BA has seen red, his blood boiling, and is now wondering why he has taken the bait and allowed himself to be angry again. He has come to my rescue, as I am being again called “A disgrace to the Filipina Mothers.” [...]

• Rowena // Jun 29, 2008 at 4:17 pm

  Hi Dine, just laugh it off…inggit lang sya nasa top search engine site mo, he he he. Don’t worry about her, we’re here for you.

• Joel // Jul 1, 2008 at 7:10 am

  I couldn’t have said it any better than how BA told the one who commented off.

  Yes, just laugh it off. He or she is just misguided, taking up the cudgels for the Filipina but not really knowing who is fighting for the cause with him or her.

• SEO Specialist // Aug 11, 2008 at 3:10 pm

  I think you are right Tina. Your comment is really helpful for SEO blog readers.

• A new hot and sexy Filipina image | House on a hill // Sep 23, 2008 at 3:02 pm

  [...] all the brouhaha over the benighted commenter in Sexy Mom’s blog, some light at the end of the [...]

• reyna elena // Oct 28, 2008 at 1:04 pm

  BWAHAHAHA!!! i maybe way to late on this one hehehe! kung kelangan mo nang latigo, i have one extra hehehe! KIVER! sexy is sexy is sexy – in or out of the bedroom. hahaha! let them drool over you! HAHAHA!

• Mabuhay ang mga Sexy Pinoy Moms! « musings of a mom // Mar 12, 2009 at 6:58 pm

  [...] I have enjoyed bloghopping today and there was an article that caught my attention. I read from the SexyMom that she have been accused of being an embarrassment to the country just because she was a [...]

• milli // Oct 13, 2009 at 4:50 pm

  I searched Sexy Mom on Google… The first on the list is The D Spot and the rest were… you know what. Kailangan pa ng maraming site na nagppromote ng positive image ng isang Pilipina.

• Filipina Contact // Mar 17, 2010 at 12:33 am

  LOL sexy mom on google and now this post….

• Dan // Oct 11, 2010 at 3:06 am

  I have a beautiful and sexy filapina wife… no apologies here. We have to learn to live with freedom of expression.

  Just remember people are who they are and even though some of us would like higher standards we must first impose them on ourselves.

  There’s nothing wrong with being sexy for a woman. It is that a majority of women are intensely fixed on their physical appearance.

  So whats wrong with looking your best? Prostitution is another story all together.

  I’m happy with my Filapina Wife. Celebrate
  diversity… and don’t be too quick to judge.

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