The Joy of Being a Mother – Blue Blink (an imaginary friend)
Posted on July 6, 2007
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from my treasure chest of mommy moments memories… (originally written 8 years ago, but still holds true to this day).
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Unconsciously, I have been very busy with my work two weeks before a business trip abroad (and to think that I just came back two weeks ago from another trip). I remember coming home one day unexpectedly early, finding Pauline, my 6-year old daughter only too happy (exhilarated may be the more apt word), about it. I was told that she had many times that night called on Blue Blink to give her strength to hold sleep , hoping to be awake by the time I came home.
And who I asked was Blue Blink? Blue Blink, I was told, was a cartoon character, a male blue donkey, with large ears whom Kakeru, a small coward boy, called whenever he was in trouble or needed strength. Blue Blink’s large ears would emit a blue laser light toward Kakeru and would transmit the inner strength asked for. I resolved to watch Blue Blink one of these days.
I was only too amused, putting guilt behind me, as I knew this business of coming home late was not permanent. These circumstances were also reminders, which would signal that things could become out of hand if something was not done about them—that family should always come first. I would then resolve to manage my time at work more effectively, so that I could spend as much time with the family as I should and as much as I would love to.
Pauline is the most imaginative of all my children, she can spend hours and hours daydreaming, and would even cast imaginary spells on her brothers and sisters. She can be immersed into her toys and books, trying to understand the stories, with the limited reading capacity she has. But I totally understand her, and I don’t panic. I even encourage her, ask her how she feels, and together we would travel to imaginary kingdoms with her imaginary friends.
I know she will outgrow this stage, and these will become fond memories of her childhood. And what better memories can a child and mother have, than being both in them? It is thus important that she not be left alone all the time with her activities. It’s good she has her other siblings, most importantly Angela, my 8-year old daughter who is the more practical one, and who remains her best friend and playmate. Her 6 other siblings contribute to her balanced life and to bring her feet down to earth. Surprisingly, Voltes V does not affect her at all, except for the familiarity of the songs connected to it.
Pauline is also the sentimental type. She would write me short “I love you”, “I miss you”, “I hope you remember me” notes, which I will find in my wallet, in my bag, in my pockets, in my phone book, or wherever, and I reciprocate or telephone her to acknowledge her thoughtfulness and thank her. I usually bring her early to school, always up to the same spot where she would be with her classmates. Sometimes I would carry her, often times we just walk hand in hand, sometimes we pick flowers along the way, sometimes walk in the rain, and before parting, I either bathe her in my kisses, or embrace her tightly. There is always that personal warmth, a whisper in her ear that she is special or an assurance that she is a favorite.
Yes, they should all be favorites (and they know this). I am rewarded with the feeling of making her special. She would always beam with joy and pride in front of her friends. Then there would be flying kisses and flying good byes until the car is out of sight. Such pleasant memories of childhood these will be, memories of both mother and child. I remember her telling me that after I bring her to school, she would always think about me and the times we had together, until her other friends come, when she would then be the normal child again, blending with her classmates.
The bottom line is, we mothers, create a tremendous impact to our children, most especially in their formative age. What they see and perceive of us is what they tend to be—we are their role models. And we should know what and how role models should be!
treasure chest from: www.biblepicturegallery.com
blue blink from: www.rootoon.com
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You’re so right Tita; I can feel those from my mother too and nothing can ever beat a mother’s warm embrace when everything is not right.
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I have 2 kids and whenever I remember something they have done in the past, it makes me smile and it warms my heart. Kids give us much more than they know.
Mothers are role models. Very very true.
I consider your children as “the luckiest persons” on earth for having you as a mother.
SOme guys say, “Before you marry a woman, observe the Mom. That’s what she’s going to become.”
What a sweet entry… I could sense and feel the affection and the love of a mother to her child (children). See what keeping a journal/writing can do. This is something that your daughter Pauline will treasure forever, I’m sure.
she’s so sweet, and no wonder, she’s got that from her role model – her mom.
hey, i’m just writing something similar for PMN, but a toddler edition.. try to send that to you this weekend. cheers!
Awww, I suddenly miss my mom! Moms, brim with joy and pride for their children but this is a completely different level. it reminds me of the post I did for my mom. it was for her birthday. It’s not as long or as grand as this but I think I said enough to express my love for her.
very true, it takes two to tango, so as much as possible i do the same thing too, to my kids, so far i’ve been reciprocated…what a wonderful feeling…
hello, dine! just dropping by.
you’re lucky to have a daughter like her. she’s an extra-ordinary kid. i’m pretty sure, with your guidance, she’ll go places.
moms best girlfriends are our daughters and vice versa
she is so sweet and thoughtful, too. finding little notes in bag, wallet, phone book, etc. is the greatest feeling!
The bottom line is, we mothers, create a tremendous impact to our children, most especially in their formative age. What they see and perceive of us is what they tend to be—we are their role models. And we should know what and how role models should be!
– Hear hear! so true!!
Awww…What a mom’s embrace can do? Until now, my 8yr old son, when he cries, he comes to me and immediately it dies down. Some kind of magic, I suppose!
This is such a sweet entry. Hope you have a great weekend ahead!
That is why mothers are called “ilaw ng tahanan”. Thank you for reinforcing the essence of being a mother
Indeed, no matter how many children we have, each one IS special in a mother’s heart, and our relationship with each child is unique. A mother never runs our of love for her children. You were blessed with a lot of children because obviously God knows you have a heart big enough to give each one a mother’s complete love!
Hi, Dine. Your kids are able to reciprocate your love because they see and feel the love that you give them
it’s sad that some parents are unmindful of their duties to their kids and would spend more time at work.
and you’re one cool Mom for taking time to show your affection to your children despite your hectic schedule. this builds a solid relationship with them and they would understand why sometimes you’re not there all the time.
Another heart-warming post, Tita Dine! Aww, it made me miss my Mom too.
Well, my Mom stopped working when I was born. Apparently Papa told her to be a full-time Mom to take care of us. She would tell me to sleep by 8.30pm on a school night. Wake me up in the morning, with the hot water and my breakfast and uniform ready. And while I wait for the service, she would wait with me whilst sweeping our front lawn, constantly reminding me of my things to bring.
the funny thing is when they get bigger, they don’t want to be seen in public being kissed or even kissing you goodbye (more so for my boys)
Pauline shows this early that right balance of IQ and EQ which to me is so ideal in an individual that I often observed my little kids if in fact they could have that proper amount of each. They say too much IQ and less EQ is still a unideal mix and would lead to maladjustment in the future.
I hope EQ could be taught and developed, like brainpower or IQ. Maybe, it;s the role of mothers (and fathers pehaps) to inculcate and strenghten this aspect of their childs personality.
ur posts on motherhood will really help out a lot of young moms like me. thanks for sharing.
Your Pauline reminds me of my girls who are so fond of inserting notes into my wallet, or in between the pages of my planner. Sometimes i’d find a scribbled “i love you” in one of my journal’s pages. Such memories, such sweetness make motherhood so wonderful
that is so sweet… I wonder if my son will grow up as sentimental as Pauline? I often dream he’d make me breakfast when he’s older or kiss & hug me for no reason when he’s already married hehehe
re: we should know what and how role models should be
Oh I am so aware of this, minsan natatakot ako. Sana di ko sya ma-overwhelm(?)